If you think you’re a “people person”, yet people [who don’t look/act like you] are rarely ever drawn to you; then it’s time to reassess. Being a “people person” is not about popularity. Some of the most reclusive people are the most engaging souls when not written off as “loners”, “rejects”, or even “stuck-up”.

We should strive to improve the ways we understand, communicate with, and relate to people; particularly those who differ from us. The world (our country included) is constantly changing and it’s becoming less and less popular to place people into boxes/categories. I used to live in a part of the country where people call certain carbonated drinks “pop,” but now reside in the part where majority call it “soda”. It might be safe to assume that most people find such a difference harmless, however it is important to never underestimate nor devalue instances where disdainful reactions to “harmless” differences make individuals feel singled out, overlooked, ignored, or otherwise discounted.

I am always fascinated by people who seem to effortlessly relate with family, friends, coworkers, managers, customers, and even complete strangers in a manner that consistently achieves positive results. However, I reject the notion that most of us lack such skill. What are you doing to get out of your comfort zone, and why don’t (or do) you encourage others to do so? - Perry Walters